.Reunited with old friend, shared gossip, felt awkward, reluctant to share own news.Why doesn't anyone tell stories or spread rumors about good days, successful endeavors, and happy people?She then told me about someone else who carried on like me-someone I knew-and how sick she had gotten through overwork that she had to be hospitalized for about four months.Imminent calamity seems to sell a lot better than a happy development.The trend has established itself quite well.Most news items are about threats, criminal behavior, destruction, bankruptcy, war...At some point, she realized that I was not engaged in the conversation and attributed my attitude to my obsession with work.So, she started lecturing me on the negative effects of not having some normal time off.etc.